{"id":3654,"date":"2025-01-09T01:23:31","date_gmt":"2025-01-09T08:23:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/?p=3654"},"modified":"2025-01-09T01:23:31","modified_gmt":"2025-01-09T08:23:31","slug":"the-ethical-slut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/?p=3654","title":{"rendered":"The ethical slut"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;ve started a new book, the ethical slut. There&#8217;s a lot of positivity and empowerment and inclusivity so far and that is really great, this is a great thing. but I can see how it might get really annoying after awhile. We&#8217;ll see how it goes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I just finished my billionth rereading of the end of vandalism. I don&#8217;t know that a more perfect book exists. It has never faded, it glitters and dances and soothes and makes my heart ache as much as ever. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What I would give to put a book like that out into the world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My dad continues to heal and recover. I was planning to go to Tucson towards end of Jan to visit. My sisters were scheduled for the kidney transplant surgery and I was gonna go back and help them out and see my dad, who will maybe be home by then. But the donation fell through and the surgery canceled. I guess this happens a lot. And because of privacy laws they can&#8217;t say what went wrong, who or why. So my sister doesn&#8217;t get her kidney and doesn&#8217;t get to know why and it makes me feel bad. But we gotta stay hopeful. They found a match, they&#8217;ll find another one. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is it shitty to say that I am super grateful that I did not get this disease? I got the short, stocky, boxy body type. They got a kidney disease. Life is hard for everyone.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve started a new book, the ethical slut. There&#8217;s a lot of positivity and empowerment and inclusivity so far and that is really great, this is a great thing. but&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3654","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3654","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3654"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3654\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3655,"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3654\/revisions\/3655"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3654"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3654"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3654"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}