{"id":121,"date":"2004-09-23T02:36:58","date_gmt":"2004-09-23T10:36:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loafe.com\/wp\/?p=121"},"modified":"2004-09-23T02:36:58","modified_gmt":"2004-09-23T10:36:58","slug":"who-to-talk-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.loafe.com\/?p=121","title":{"rendered":"who to talk to?"},"content":{"rendered":"

I&#146m so glad that I have loafe, because it provides an opportunity for me to talk about all the things bothering me and on my mind. But sometimes, you need more than just a one-sided outlet. You need someone to talk back, to give you perspective, to say a few reassuring words. You need a human response.<\/p>\n

Right now I am having issues with Gordon, and I could really use some good advice, or at least an understanding ear. But when it comes to Gordon…well, things are a little tricky. He has done some things to justifiably draw the ire of my friends, because they love me and only want the best for me. Some of the things Gordon has done aren&#146t the actions of their ideal guy for me. Thankfully, things are starting to get better now and relationships are being formed and\/or mended. So I am afraid anything I say about him now will ruin our progress and give fuel to the fire, creating more discord between all of us. And I don&#146t want that.<\/p>\n

I will say this. How do you know the difference between being supportive and giving unconditional love to someone and just being a fool, letting someone break your trust over and over again? I feel like maybe I&#146m being dragged down into a situation that is nearly impossible to extract myself from; but of all my options, I always seem to come out the loser, no matter what I choose.<\/p>\n

I guess at this point it&#146s about sacrifice. What I am willing to give up and what I am willing to not give up. I want to make things work, but I don&#146t know how to fix the broken parts and I am tired of trying.<\/p>\n

I have Ryland now and in the end, that&#146s all that matters. It&#146s just hard though. To feel so happy and fulfilled on one hand and so incredibly lonely and disappointed on the other.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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